Jovin respondeu
Thank you for your feedback Caroline. I’m very sorry to hear about your experience and apologize for any inconvenience caused.
However since it’s one sided review, I would like to provide some few more narrations about the allegations.
First of all Caroline arrived a week earlier before a second male volunteer arrived, we introduced her to the entire staff and gave her the orientation and schedule of the school and organization.
We were bringing her to our non profit daycare and picked her up every day, as we always do to all solo female volunteer until they get used to it. The distance is 10 minutes walking to school.
The problem about Caroline I think she’s a little bit introvert, closed minded and racist. She judges everything from wrong point of view which makes us feel embarrassed.
We as local people, we have our own traditional cuisine which we like to cook some days like Ugali the stiff porridge from corn flour and local spinach (Matembele ) which we found not very exciting for international volunteers, that’s why we came up with this idea of having two different dishes the international cuisine like Spaghetti, French fries and rice for volunteers as well as local cuisine Ugali.for us local people, since we like it mostly.
Caroline wasn’t interested from very first place to try this local dishes which we totally understand and accept her preference that’s why we were making two different dishes few days in a week, the international cuisine for her as a volunteer and local dishes for us, we as a local people who are working for this project.
This may seems to be isolating volunteer from wrong perspective but it can also seems to be a special care and treatment for volunteers from the right perspective. Since we respect her right of choice of having the typical western cuisines.
Caroline developed the intimacy and romantic relationship with this male volunteer which was quite fine and lovely until the day he left to Kenya for another project which made Caroline struggling to accept the loneliness from this guy and then she started to make some silly excuses about leaving the project because of her feelings of loneliness.
Remember, she was here for a week before the guy and it was all good until the day he left to Kenya and Caroline started to feel desperate, crying all day, bought the flight the same day and left the same night as his boyfriend leaving to Kenya.
Apart from this immature behavior of not able to control her own feelings, she could be an amazing volunteer if she could be able to understand the life in different point of view especially being an open minded to learn new cultures and a way of life as the main purpose of this platform to exchange culture.
As the host of this project JOVIN, I can declare that, i have so many experiences from solo female volunteers like Uma, Pauline and Filomena and it was always great experience from both sides except for her.