Catherine respondido
Just to address Otu’s review;
I am not sure why Otu thinks he is entitled to comment on the use of language in my home, no derogatory remarks were made to him It is a tribute to my patience and self restraint that, after his appalling conduct in our home and the destruction he wrought in our garden, that I remained courteous to him even during his hysterics and tantrums.
Not knowing any English stopped Otu speaking English, he couldn’t speak any English when I collected him from the station, he was encouraged, as is every volunteer, to improving his English language skills but that only works if someone already had some English language skills to improve, Otu’s lack of English was not addressed by him making no effort to learn, expect (maybe) from his phone.
Clearly maths is not Otu’s strength either, I make that 12 words and he can’t count dogs either! Otu’s profile claims, Expert in Animal Care but he was not interested in the dogs, as far as I could make out he doesn’t even like animals, perhaps in he is unaware that animal (including humans) produce waste and a part of any animal care work is disposing of that waste, all this was explained to him (in Portuguese) before he came. Hopefully he will never try working with farm animals. We are clear that anyone wishing to volunteer with us must love dogs, Otu came to look after the garden but we were still surprised at his indifference and irritation with our lovely dogs who simply want to be friends and be fussed, whilst he was here we had a litter of adorable puppies that everyone was excited about and fussed over, Otu ignored them completely as if they didn’t exist, he always wanted be the centre of attention and even resented the attention given to new born puppies.
The household is quite relaxed, I am not sure what “military atmosphere” is supposed to mean unless he is referring to such military tactics as starting work on time, working at least most of the agreed hours, showing respect for others and acting with honesty and integrity.
The photos shouldn’t fool anyone, we chose them carefully show that there is both work and play, Otu seems to have overlooked those that showing people working, but then work is not his strong point either.
LOCKS , thank you Otu, good to be reminded. Otu could not understand that the safety of our dogs and security of our home is the responsibility of all who live here, he constantly left gates to the road open. Otu also doesn’t like locks on toilet doors which led to a particularly sickening encounter (back to the subject of animal waste) but as he also kept a bottle of urine in his cabin perhaps one shouldn’t be surprised.
There was no “expired” food, until Otu arrived everyone understood and was very happy with our approach to food sustainability and the access it provided to luxury snacks and indeed Otu was the first to help himself to everything he wanted. It was Otu’s natural negativity that lead to silly comments from a couple of young volunteers who Otu found easy to influence. Otu had no interest in sustainable living his only passion was looking after Otu.
That dealt with, the following should be useful to other hosts.
Otu was problematic from day one. He has a strange relationship with the truth and misled us on several (pretty much all) matters to be accepted here.
We are very clear that our home is a place suitable for those with intermediate English but not for beginners, we need to ensure that volunteers are safe, understand how to keep others safe and importantly also understand how to keep our dogs and our home safe.
We practice conversation with the volunteers to help them with their English skills and we ensure that they understand what is required and how to undertake tasks safely.
To ensure that prospective volunteers can decide if this is a voluntary that they would enjoy, we ask them to contact one of our past volunteers who speaks fluent Spanish and Portuguese and can give them first hand details (good and bad), of life here, in this conversation Otu confirmed that he could speak good (conversational) English, this was simply a lie, he knows only a very few words of English mainly; “Want”, “No”, “You take me”, “Understand” (“understand”, particularly when repeated over and over with vehemence, means he doesn’t understand at all. He could not even write his review in English. We had to ask other volunteers to translate everything or use Google Translate, even then it was questionable whether he actually understood Portuguese as he would go off and do something quite different, maybe it was local dialect issue or difficulty seeing the phone screen.
Very importantly, we make it clear that we do not accept unvaccinated volunteers, we have a duty of care to everyone in the household to keep them as safe as we are able and to protect ourselves, our clients and those around us. Otu confirmed in writing that he had had two Covid vaccinations. Shortly after his arrival, during dinner, he picked up that vaccines were being discussed and started shouting loudly - “Me no, zero, zero ha ha ha”! Through another volunteer we explained that he could not stay under those circumstances so he quickly “remembered” “uma injeção cobiços, Ok Ok, I one”. We shall never know none, one or two, possibly Otu himself doesn’t know.
We also make it clear that we do not accept smokers and I have taken it to be clear that this includes other substances. When Otu returned from a visit to Winchester shouting about the “different beautiful, beautiful purple sky” it gave me concerns, the other volunteers thought it hilarious, but then he was not their problem, he was my problem. The cabin that he was using is still open-doored to try to clear the smell that continues to linger and it will be several weeks before we can reasonably ask anyone else to use it, fortunately we have other accommodation.
Otu knews nothing about vegetable gardening, which is what we had invited him here to do based his claim that he was an expert. He cut down the fruit bushes which were actively fruiting, cut fruiting tomato plants off of a few centimetres above the ground, pulled up all our cropping bean and pea plants, weeded (dug up) all our developing onions, “harvested” all our pumpkins and squashes which need two more months to ripen, and “pruned” my citrus collection so that they will take another year to recover. Total devastation in my beautiful garden and all I asked him do to was repot some small citrus plants and weed between paving slabs. We have lost most of our produce for this year. Otu’s answer to the destruction was “sick”, I certainly was.
Given the devastation in the vegetable garden I asked (physically demonstrated to) Otu to clear a small overgrown area at the front of our property, near the road. Instead he went off the property and hacked down an area (not ours) that had been designated by the local authority to be left as a sanctuary for pollinating insects. I went out three times to tell him to stop, each time he did, only to start again as soon as I was gone. He was given a domestic garden shredder to shred small twigs for composting, I tested it in front of him and tried to get him to understand that he must not overload the machine, it was all done through Google Translate, within minutes he jammed and overheated it, when we showed him it was blocked and too hot he became angry shouting the usual “No, No, No”, as if someone else had done the damage or the problem didn’t exist. Asked to clear away and pile up for shredding, leaf and trimmings that other volunteers had cut he spread them all along the road side.
Otu’s whole profile is a fantasy, he has almost no knowledge of English, no knowledge of gardening, no knowledge of handyman work, no knowledge what-so-ever of animal care and is a poor cook. His profile suggests that he is an expert in almost everything but when he was here we struggled to find anything that he could do safely or competently.
All this was exasperated by his general behaviour which was erratic, disruptive and unpredictable. He expected to have special vegetarian meals cooked of him, which we did, but refused to cook for others who ate meat. He demanded to be taken to places whenever he chose, however inconvenient. We speak English at dinner so that everyone can practice their skills, since Otu couldn’t speak English, he would shout in Portuguese, tying to dominate the room with his own conversations.
He is incredibly loud, he would sometimes start shouting when he was alone in his cabin which was most unsettling.
Much of his working hours were spent on his phone, when I queried the lack of progress he indicated that he was taking English lessons instead of working. It took him 4 ½ hours to carry out a routine daily task that takes 2 ½ hours at the most and which I do regularly in 1 ½ hours, at that point he would decide to finish for the day.
We all breakfast together and discuss the plan for the day, at 08:30 we get ready for work, each day Otu arrived to start cooking his breakfast at 08:28 he was never ready to start his allocated tasks for the day but he always stopped work well before he had worked his hours. I says he found the work hard, not as hard as he found getting out of bed each day.
We are passionate about reducing waste and buy some of our snacks from Approved Food, who work to recover and retail food close to or past, it’s Sell By Date but (not it’s Use By Date), it is a well known and respected company in the UK which works to reduce food waste. Otu used this as a opportunity to agitate and cause trouble, we have all sorts of food in the house so he always had plenty of choice, he in fact chose to help himself heartily to the “expired” snacks. We only asked him to cook once, something else that he is an expert in, according to his profile, but which did not go well. Fortunately we had other great cooks in the household who stepped in and produced wonderful meals.
We did our best to put up with Otu, asking someone to leave is very much a last resort but he decided, having already taken his time off for the week, that he wanted more days off and he was going to simply take any time he wanted. We were delighted and took Otu to the town within the hour.
Otu is drifter looking for an easy life at the expense of others, here he was a liability. He was detached, lacked a sense of reality or empathy but was strangely needy and invasive. He used far more of our time than he returned in benefit either socially or practically, he was in a literal sense a net negative. After he went he sent me a toxic and bewildering message, which allowing for translate errors, declared that (among other vague, apocryphal ramblings); he hopes we die soon and he will damn us on Judgement Day, etc… Not a very nice person.